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RATE-A-MATE LITE

Think of a specific person with whom you are currently in a relationship, or considering a relationship. Rate your feelings about that person in the categories below to determine if that person is 'right or goodnight' for you. Be honest with yourself. For a more in-depth compatibility analysis, download Dr. Mead's Guide to Making Healthy Relationship Choices.

  • Desirable/Satisfied = 4
  • Acceptable = 3
  • Undesirable = 2
  • Unacceptable = 1

Money Matters

financial resources, financial stability, job status, generosity, attitude.

Lifestyle

predominant activities, hobbies, how ones time is spent, etc.

Domestic Functioning

domestic attitudes, skills and behaviors; tidiness, etc.

Sexual Matters

sexual appetite, preferences, skills, attractiveness, fetishes, etc.

Social Skills

ease of relating to others, likeability, communication skills, etc.

Personality

sense of humor, personality traits,

Body Matters

physical appearance, body maintenance, weight, exercise, health issues

Emotional Status

self-sufficiency, typical mood, judgment, self-esteem, etc.

Belief System

values, beliefs, code of living, etc.

Fatal Flaws

addictions, anger issues, criminal behavior, dependency, etc.

Background

historical experiences, childhood experiences, family relations


Money Matters

financial resources, financial stability, job status, generosity, attitude.

Lifestyle

predominant activities, hobbies, how ones time is spent, etc.

Domestic Functioning

domestic attitudes, skills and behaviors; tidiness, etc.

Sexual Matters


sexual appetite, preferences, skills, attractiveness, fetishes, etc.

Social Skills

ease of relating to others, likeability, communication skills, etc.

Personality

sense of humor, personality traits,

Body Matters

physical appearance, body maintenance, weight, exercise, health issues

Emotional Status


self-sufficiency, typical mood, judgment, self-esteem, etc.

Belief System

values, beliefs, code of living, etc..

Fatal Flaws

addictions, anger issues, criminal behavior, dependency, etc.

Background

historical experiences, childhood experiences, family relations